Why ‘SAYING IT’ is important
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Ever had someone offend you and he/she doesn’t want to say sorry? Sometimes we see that the person is indeed sorry for what he/she has done but he/she is having a hard time saying it.
Communication is essential for relationships
Sometimes the other person already knows that he/she is wrong but he/she just doesn’t want to say it.
It’s such a mysterious thing – why saying “sorry” is important, even if we know that the other person already knows we’re sorry. So why is it important?
Picture this: You like someone and you both know that it’s mutual. You both like each other. If the other person doesn’t say it, there’s something that will always be missing. Can you imagine two people who never told each other that they liked each other entering into marriage? I’ve yet to meet a couple like that.
It is important to SAY IT. Telling the other person you like him/her completes the deed you show – it completes your outward actions. Saying sorry completes the repentant heart. SAYING IT IS IMPORTANT.
We have to keep communicating with God everyday
I want to apply this to prayer. Why is prayer important? God knows your every need right? God knows everything you do, everything you say, every thought you think right? God knows you’re sorry when you did wrong right? Right?
Even if God knows your every need and even if God knows you’re sorry, if you don’t say it, it will never be complete. Confessing to God is humility and God loves a person with a humble heart. If you don’t ask God for the things you need, it’s keeping humility from Him. And so it creeps in as an issue of pride.
Prayer is also constant communication with God. If you keep on obeying Him and never talk to Him, then the outward manifestation of your love for Him is not complete. Communication is essential for a relationship to grow. You communicate with God through prayer and God communicates with you through His Word. Read your Bible and pray every day.
I hope this short message has knocked on your heart on the importance of prayer and confession in your life. Doing the deed is indeed good, but if you don’t say it, it is not complete.
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i love this kuuuya sean. super.
haha 
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parang i need this
“Sometimes we see that the person is indeed sorry for what he/she has done but he/she is having a hard time saying it.”
kahit mahirap, yeah, we should say sorry..
waaaaaaahhhh @-) thaaaaaaaaaaanks seanpieeee!!!
i learned something from you again :gt;
Thanks Dani!!! =D you never fail to encourage me =D haha!
I’m glad you learned something from my own learnings =)) thanks!!!
Open communication makes every relationship possible and harmonious! That’s what I always tell sa friends ko, say ‘I love you’ to your parents everyday, declare. Say your problems para they can understand you— that is what most teens don’t understand lagi nila sasabihin age gap, there’s a gap kasi they don’t share. I have a friend last week lang, may problem sya about this secret about himself, kaya he can’t find a way to address the other problem kasi it will bring the ’secret’ into surface, and he will need to say the truth. Sa iba na nagcoconfide yung mom nya.
Waahh nilagay mo talaga ako sa blogroll, adik. Isn’t my blog irrelevant, hahaha.
Often times, it’s a communication problem =)
Relationships are made by good communication.
I definitely agree to say ‘I love you’ to our parents everyday. It’s the only thing we can give to them that will bring them the most joy. So easy and simple, yet so taken for granted.
Thanks Charles!
Hahaha it’s my blogroll anyway =)) maybe I’ll re-arrange it when I have more blogs to link to
haha! yeah. Ask and you shall receive.
Yeah =D haha!
TAMA!!!XD
it’s like wanting something as a gift and yet not saying what that is…. and then getting disappointed ‘coz that’s not what you wanted….
kaya nga i’ve started asking”Daddy God” what i want and praying that it will be in line with His plans for me….=) hehehehe….
another job well done sean…. ikaw at si Lord…=)
God bless you…XD
Thanks Anj! =D Praise God!
God bless you too. Thanks for always wanting to get wisdom and listening to what I have to say =)
another nice post Sean! keep it up…
Thanks Celeste =)
[...] A relationship can only grow through communication – God communicates to you through His word. You communicate with God through prayer. A one-way relationship cannot grow. It is boring and tiresome – same with God. Don’t just pray, read the Bible! Likewise don’t just studiously read the Bible, you have to pray and tell God what’s in your heart! ‘Saying it’ is important!!! [...]
[...] I wrote an article about ‘Saying It’ in this blog. Wise and humble people knows when and how to ‘say it’ because they know that wisdom and humility doesn’t just come in actions or deeds but it must also take the form of words. Even if your humility is painfully obvious in your actions, unless you know how to ‘say it’ it can never be complete. [...]